I met a single man through adam4adam 2 months ago. we hit if off for a short while, then I started to be turned off by his behavior and manipulation techniques. And now I feel, I have been manipulated. His profile on adam, was just looking for sex, and I am looking for something more meaningful. I asked him, “what are you looking for?” he responded “I don’t know”.
So now I am at the point, there is no more text or phone calls, after I distanced myself.
Should I tell him officially or keep things the way they are and let him figure it out?


  1. Let him figure it out. Since there is no more texting or phone calls, he probably has, already.

  2. If he hasn’t contacted you then it sounds like he got the hint, no need to say anything more.

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