So I’ve known my friend for almost two years now and we’ve become really close over the past few months. In those few months I’ve also fallen in love with him. We have awesome chemistry between us. Thing is I’m gay and he’s straight, I think. I now find myself feeling weird and awkward when we are together. I want to let him know how I feel about him but I don’t know how to start the conversation. I’m confident that even if he’s not interested in me as a lover we will continue to be friends. Any advice or suggestions on a clever way to bring up the topic?


  1. Just tell him how you feel. Start with how long it been, why you feel this way, and what is it you want from each other. Look for his response and be ready for what he will tell you. If it’s rejection don’t loose your friendship over just a deep strong feelings for him. I wish you the best.

  2. I’d say redfine what you consider ‘love’.

    I like to think love describes a situation where feelings are reciprocated.

  3. 100% genuine advice – pack your bags and leave town.

    You can’t stop your feelings for him and he can’t reciprocate them… nothing good will come of this.

    Try to find another outlet for your feelings and don’t waste time on straight guys.

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