I think my boyfriend is gay or at least bisexual but he was raised in a very cloistered homophobic religious family. Gay men of reddit. Were you ever in this situation? I’m trying to be sensitive to the topic and not ask any intrusive questions. I love him but if he’s gay I don’t want to be with him . I don’t care about him being bisexual except I’m concerned eventually he will have to act on his urges. I can’t handle cheating and lying.
Thanks in advance.
We live together and have been together for around 2 years now.
EDIT- I do not think he will cheat JUST because of bisexuality. I’m concerned about building a life with someone who hasn’t accepted themselves fully. If he had urges he finally decided to act on then I would be concerned regardless if it’s cheating or if our relationship ended. We did have an infidelity issue in the past. Please do not come for my life 🤦♀️