Hi guys! I’m a 26-year-old man from Mastic Beach, NY. I am a bisexual man with a preference for women. I’ve been with my girlfriend for almost 7 years now. I used to have a job which earned me slightly more money than someone who is of my age, but the company went bust. My girlfriend has a low-paying job, and I’m currently on unemployment benefits.

I’m looking really hard to find another job, but it’s so hard. I’ve had about 3 or 4 job interviews for different companies so far, but I haven’t been hired by any of them. I’m getting so desperate that I’ve started to look into gay porn. I’m a relatively tall man – I’m 6’2″. I have a pretty decent sized dick – 7 inches with a really good girth. I go to the gym a lot, so I’m quite muscular. I have dark brown hair with blue eyes; and sleeve tattoos on both of my arms, and a couple of tattoos on my chest and my back.

My girlfriend knows that I’m looking into gay porn, but she doesn’t think I should do it because she can’t bear the thought of me having sex with someone else… even if it was for money. She’d consider it cheating.

I really want to earn a lot more money than I am now, but I don’t want to upset my girlfriend. Should I try to convince her to let me do gay porn?

I’ve never been in a relationship with another man, nor I’ve ever had sexual relations with another man (that even includes mutual masturbation). However, I do masturbate over gay porn now and again.

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  1. have you considered that once you put yourself err.. out there, it may be hard to undo? unfortunately porn (in general) still carries a lot of social stigma, and it may affect your social life and cost you job opportunities (of which includes high paying jobs where you’re not required to do the dirty on camera)

  2. It’s a competittive field and has to be seen as a temporary or side gig for most performers

  3. I used to know a guy who did porn. Said it was an enormous mistake and wasn’t worth any amount of money. You’re better off working nights at a gas station.

  4. Don’t porn actors mostly get one-time payments and not residuals? If so, it’s definitely not going to solve any money problems beyond this month. So the only two logical reasons to do porn is either if you are going to do so many videos so quickly that you are getting payments on a regular basis (*extremely* unlikely unless you are a breakout international star) or else if you are doing the porn just because you like doing porn and don’t really care about the money.

  5. Send pics so we can verify said girth and muscular body. 🙂
    Money shouldn’t be everything and long term you need to work your way into a high paying job so that you have the skills to match the pay. Then if the company goes bust, you can justify that paycheck to another company.

  6. I am curious as to why you consider yourself bisexual when you have never have sexual relations with another man?

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    Gay for Pay is one thing if you KNOW you like cock. Going in as a mansex virgin is a bit risky isn’t it? What if you get in there and you freeze up and don’t want to do it? And you get home and gf is gone because you intended to cheat on her (her definition).

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    The other thing to think about is the production factor. I used to own part of a production company that did educational productions for adult topics. When interviewing men, we would always ask them to drop trow and get themselves hard. At least half could not do it because there were men around, women around, it was a professional environment and not a bedroom, etc. Video production work is work. It’s not just fucking your gf at home. You gotta get it up, do some of the deed, then stop, wait for the cameras to reposition, then reshoot, etc.

  7. 7.0 inches ≈ 17.8 centimetres ^(1 inch = 2.54cm)

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  8. It doesn’t pay as well as you think and you’re going to need to audition. Perhaps doing some cam work and an only fans is a better idea.

  9. A similar comment was made, but consider the following:

    * Word *will* get out that you’ve done gay porn. Just work from the assumption that it’ll be on the front page of The Wall Street Journal. That’s the safest way to evaluate any “iffy” decision you might make.
    * Your family will hear and possibly see what you’ve done. How will you feel explaining to your mom and dad?
    * Later in life, assuming you want to have kids, how will you feel knowing they can and very likely will see you having sex with another dude? How will you explain that to them? How would you feel seeing your dad having sex with another dude?
    * What impact will this have on your ability to find a job? Will an interviewing manager reject your resume if they find out you’ve done porn?
    * How about your next girlfriend? How will she feel knowing you did gay porn?

    Every time I see young guys putting themselves out there, I always wonder if they’ve considered any of these things. Pictures and videos on the Internet never go away. They just multiply. As an example, I’ve run across (memorable, nude) photos recently that I remember seeing well over 10 years ago.

    Dealing with a money shortage is a temporary hurdle. Trying to salvage your reputation is a life-long challenge.

    Of course, this is all a moot point if you’re planning to go into porn full-time; however, as was pointed out earlier, that is a highly competitive field.

  10. I know a lot of people are giving you advice regarding the financial pros/cons of trying to get into porn, but my advice is for your relationship. Do you love your girlfriend? Like really love her? If so, I would respect her wishes that you don’t do it. I’d advise you forget about doing porn and just continue to try your hardest to find another job, even if it’s a temporary lower-paying job compared to your previous one. It may not seem like cheating to you (not saying this is the case), but she has made it clear to you that it is to her, and I can see where she’s coming from. Is a little bit of temporary money worth the damage this might due to your relationship with your girlfriend? It could cause some pain that can’t be undone. If you see a future with here, remember “for better or poorer.” If it were me, I’d rather struggle financially with my partner temporarily and find a way to make things work then him do something that can’t be undone just for a bit of money. Please try to understand her side more.

  11. Look into webcams? Your girlfriend could even participate if she wanted to and it would help earn some extra money and you two could just have safe fun together also.

  12. No.

    First, you cannot undo it and internet never forgets, so you’ll be left with a stain living on beyond your life. And I assume, as you already had a decent job, that you are more competent to make a living by something other than porn.

    Secondly, porn doesn’t pay that much, cfr. the first point.

    Then, 4 job interviews is like nothing. I have a very good resume and work on a hot job market but had to apply for 150+ job offers and have been to numerous interviews.

    Lastly, you do not seem to be desperate; as if you need money for sth urgent or detrimental for a mattrr of life and death, or you’re homeless and have literally nothing left in your life and you’re starving to death. Even then the first two points still hold and you should be looking for other ways (like getting loans, finding community support, etc.) As a result, I cannot see any reason why you cannot be more patient about your current state and live through a bit of austerity for a while before you get back to the formal job market.

    So, no matter what your partner thinks of it, do not even think about it again.

    Wishyou good luck job hunting!

  13. Nope. Porn literally NEVER goes away. It will always be a part of your life. Your friends and family will discover this. You will also live with the constant tension and anxiety that your friends and family will watch your porn and know about it. Strangers will use it to shame and humiliate you again and again. Strangers may even walk up to you and solicit you as if you were a prostitute. If all of this is ok with you, do it. If any of this bothers you, don’t do it. I have had several friends of mine who did porn when they were younger. Most of them regret it. Many of them are grateful that it was a time before the internet (DVD and VHS only porn), so the evidence is no longer available. The ones who did porn during the internet age are still reaping the consequences. Some have been fired from corporate jobs. Most just get tired of being treated like a piece of meat or a prostitute. It creeps them out, pisses them off, and makes them feel like shit. Think really hard about this decision.

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