I love my boyfriend very much, we’ve been together for 2 years now. But while being out he told me while we were waiting for our Uber outside of the bar that there were about 10 other guys he could have gone home with him that night but was going home with me, we are exclusive and didn’t know what to say. What would you say to that?


  1. I’d probably make fun of him, but I’m a bitch. In all seriousness, just ask what he meant. If it was an ego thing maybe he’s feeling a bit insecure.

  2. Every Thursday we try to go to a new restaurant in town and one of the things we always talk about is how are we doing as a couple.
    My mind can’t stop wondering if he said that as a way to make me feel insecure or get a reaction from me.

  3. I heard a black woman on a talk show say one time, “if you can TAKE my man, you can HAVE my man”

    I get it. If that’s the way he wants to believe it is, fine for now, but get this straight boo, you step out, your ass is yesterday’s news.

  4. Maybe ask him how he feels about seeing other ppl. If he’s fine with it that lets you know it’s time for you to move on.

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